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As human beings, we are born with an attachment system, which, according to Bowlby’s attachment theory, has the purpose of ensuring security and intimacy with the people we are attached to. (Bowlby, J,1988). The attachment system is determined during childhood by the caring relationships we experienced, and as such we have unconsciously integrated expectations in […]